Key takeaways
- Maintain dignity and comfort by following the person’s usual routine, using familiar products and respecting their privacy
- Use appropriate equipment to ensure safety and ease during washing, dressing and toileting
- Seek professional advice and support for specialised care needs, such as hair loss or incontinence
- Listen to the person you’re caring for and adapt the care to suit their needs, wants and preferences
Caring for someone with cancer can involve helping with personal care, including washing, dressing and managing toileting needs. Supporting someone in this way can be difficult but it will help to maintain a person’s comfort, dignity, independence and overall wellbeing. There may be times when you will need equipment to help make the support you give safe for both you and the person you are caring for. In this article, Perci’s cancer nurse specialists share some tips to guide you.
Washing and bathing
Helping someone with washing or bathing can help them feel refreshed and comfortable and can prevent skin problems and infections. It’s important to keep to their usual routine and use products they prefer. You may need to check the water temperature and make sure you have slip mats in place where needed.
Try to maintain as much dignity as possible. If they can manage some tasks on their own, encourage them to maintain their independence. Equipment like shower seats or chairs can make the process easier, and safer for both of you.
Dressing
Comfort is key when helping someone get dressed. Loose clothing and elastic waistbands make dressing easier, especially if mobility is an issue. Always encourage the person to choose what they want to wear, perhaps show them a few choices. Consider layers that can be added or removed easily, especially if the person feels hot or cold frequently. Choosing clothes that are easy to wash, dry, and require minimal ironing can also reduce stress.
Hair and nail care
Hair and nail care may need special attention, especially if the person is experiencing hair loss or brittle nails due to treatment. You and the person you are caring for may find it easier to use rinse-free shampoos or hair-washing trays if mobility is limited. For nail care, especially for those with conditions like diabetes, professional help from a podiatrist is advisable.
Managing toileting needs
Toileting can be challenging, but there are ways to make it safer and more comfortable. Keeping the person’s room close to the bathroom where possible, and using aids like raised toilet seats or commodes can help. If you need help assessing or accessing aids, talk to the care team, who can recommend an occupational therapist or have a look on the NHS website for further information.
If the person you’re caring for is using a commode or urinary bottle, ensure they have the privacy they need. If they have issues with incontinence, seek advice from a district nurse or pharmacist who can recommend products and services to help with comfort and dignity.
By following these guidelines, you can help ensure that the person you care for remains as comfortable and independent as possible.
While we have ensured that every article is medically reviewed and approved, information presented here is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have any questions or concerns, please talk to one of our healthcare professionals or your primary healthcare team.
References:
‘Practical tips for caring for someone with cancer,’ Macmillan.org.uk, Apr 2023, https://www.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-information-and-support/supporting-someone/practical-support-for-carers/practical-tips-for-caring-for-someone-with-cancer